Has your partner…
- hit, slapped, punched, shoved or kicked you?
- threatened to hurt you or your friends?
- consistently ridiculed or insulted you?
- become extremely jealous if you talked to other people or went out without him/her?
- made you account for time you are away from him/her?
- forced you to touch him/her or have sex with him/her?
- accused you of dating other people behind his/her back?
- threatened to hurt you or him/herself if you break up with them?
- used being drunk or high as an excuse for his/her violent behavior?
- blamed you for provoking his/her violent behavior?
- made you give him/her your email/facebook/IM passwords so they could check up on you?
- sent you numerous and/or threatening text messages?
Keep in mind, this is not a magazine quiz. Answering yes to even one of these questions may indicate that you are in an abusive relationship.